reshade
I use reshade version 4.91. I tried the most recent versions but my presets are incompatible with it. tbh its probably smarter to use the latest version of gshade instead... but i am too lazy to change it
i know this link to the reshade 4.91 version looks a little sketch, but its taken straight from the forum on the official reshade website
you can find the latest version of gshade here. apparently it discontinued updates last month? idk i dont use gshade ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
presets
my most used is the dove 2.0 by kindlespice . its definetly my favorite. i have shortcuts to toggle depth of field and mxao shader during gameplay to easily get nice screenshots! but yea its super gameplay friendly
i also use
sims 4 mod manager
this has honestly become a life saver. all u have to do is install it and it can see all your cc. you can filter if you are looking for something specific. my favorite feature is that you can click "search on web" on any item and it will pull it up on ur default browser for you. I CANT RECOMMEND THIS ENOUGH!!
sims 4 mod manager!!